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There are no strict rules that you have to follow when you enter into a swinger lifestyle, but there are a few things that we recommend you and your partner to follow: |
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Enter swinging as a couple – in the context of swinging you should enter as a couple. By being couples it does not mean that you need to be married, but should very least have a little history together.
- Be familiar with each others’ emotional needs and wants - this is an extremely important rule when it comes to feeling comfortable about other couples approaching you in a swinger lifestyle.
- Have good communication – this is critical in a swinger lifestyle as you need to be clear about what you and your partner are doing and why.
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Confidence and comfort first – you and your partner must have confidence in each other when being approached by others. If this is not reached, jealousy will occur (see dealing with jealousy). You should be aware of each other comfort when swinging with other couples. If you or your partner is uncomfortable with a situation or activity, it should be ceded immediately.
The rule of thumb is couples should view swinging as a form of enhancement to their existing sexual relationship, rather than to replace a fail one. Swinging is only a form of social activity for both to enjoy and experience together.
For other General Facts:
Swinger's History | Who are Swingers?
What is Swinging? | The Benefits of Swinging
Myth about Swinging | Swinger's Lifestyles
Entering a Swinging Lifestyle | Swinger's Principles
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